Protecting Your Children in a Divorce

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A divorce can be hard on every member of a family. It is a well-known statistic that 50% of marriages in America end in divorce. If you are going through the unfortunate experience, the first thing you need to do is make sure your children are protected from the experience.

Your approach to the subject will depend on the age and maturity of your children. If you believe your children are mature enough to handle the situation, then you should sit down with them and tell them exactly what is happening. It is never a good idea to lie to your child. If your child is too young or unstable to deal with the situation, you should be delicate with them, but you still should not lie to them about it.

You should also consider having your child or children see a Councelor. Counseling may not seem necessary at the time, but it is very important that your child has someone to talk to that is not involved in the situation. If your child is really not in need of much counseling, you should still research good Councelors in your area so your child will have the option of talking to someone if they need to in the future.

You certainly love your children, so it is very important to help them through this situation. It is easy for a divorce to harm children, especially if they think it is their fault. Protecting your children needs to be one of your first concerns in a divorce.

How to Drive Away From a DUI Conviction

Getting charged with a DUI is about as bad as you can get without going to jail for a crime. First, one has to take into account how dangerous and reckless it is to drive while under the influence. No matter the situation, there is just no reason to do anything that dangerous. For most people, a night in a holding cell waiting to be bailed out is enough to make them see the error of their ways.

Now that the message has been received loud and clear, there is a need to try and get out of the DUI as best you can. For that you will need two things. You will need to show your commitment to no longer drinking, and you will need a top-of-the-line attorney.

Showing a commitment to staying sober will go a long way in convincing a judge or a prosecuting attorney that you are serious about getting clean. This will increase your leverage, but it will also provide you with the help you need to make sure the mistake never happens again. You can find great rehab centers and counseling on sites like TheCyn.com and learn about facilities like The Canyon.

Once you get yourself into a treatment program, it’s time for your attorney to start working on your behalf. One thing they can negotiate is probation before judgment. This means that you are put on probation for a pre-determined amount of time before judgment is passed down. This is a great way to avoid a DUI. Another thing the lawyer can do for you is negotiate to keep you driving up until the sentencing. The goal is to extend your right to drive as long as you can. If the lawyer can pull a few strings, he can get you on supervision or request as a condition of your probation to have your car installed with a breathalyzer.

What Do Assisted Living Facilities Offer?

Most of us will get to the point where either we, or our aging parents, will require some sort of assistance when we get too old take care of ourselves properly. It is important that we try to maintain our dignity and self worth by living as independently as possible for as long as possible.

This is where assisted living facilities can be life saving. Most health care providers are able to connect you to the right types of assistance you may need. Assisted living takes on many forms and it depends on the level or type of need of the individual. In general, there are three main types of assisted living. Housing needs, nutritional needs and personal support needs.

Housing needs make subsidized housing or apartments available to those that cannot afford normal housing on their incomes or pensions. Hospitality needs make hot meals available to those that cannot cook for themselves and personal support needs assist those that need routine care for daily tasks like bathing, dressing, changing linen to name a few.

There are residential facilities which may have a separate wing called assisted living and these generally provide these services all under one roof. Once a senior becomes too frail to take of themselves and these services are no longer sufficient in assisting them to live independent lives, they can be moved to a full care facility, often called Frail Care. Here they will be nursed in a hospital like setting until they are well enough to return to assisted living or they pass on due to old age or illness.

It is comforting to know that there are options and that we do have choices. If you need to know more about the choices in your area, speak to your doctor or nurse practitioner and they will know who to contact for you.